Short Women to be Fined for Dating Tall Men….

hehe, gal you just throw an interesting topic. as per the tall-man-with-short-woman match, I guess Eva Longoria is another example.
but don’t get bothered by the judging from others especially strangers, you live ur life, responsible for yourself. i don’t think Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise is a bad couple.

I agree with you too, it’s not fair that tall women don’t have as much chance to meet and date tall men, because tall men already got a short girlfriend….
I wish there would be more tall men out there.

Hi! I think you made an interesting statement here.

My view might disappoint you but let me take this to another perspective.

I think that both tall men and short woman (and vice versa) have a “layer” of subconsciosnes that dictates them to choose partners like this. I think it is because they (all of us in some way) have it genetically hard-coded because otherwise you would have tall man having kids only with tall women and short man with short woman thus creating two “races” of tall and short people.

Evolution has it’s way of “removing” the extremes.

I don’t like that fact either but I think that there might be something to it.

Interesting blog definitely.

Good post (and good blog) my compliments.
Let me say stereotypes are always very strong and they do their dirty job. I mean on both sides, male a female. A couple with a muche taller man is an image we have in our subconscious. I know a lot of men who like tall women, but they would never date a taller woman. It would be too frustrating for them walking on the street or enter a restaurant with a 6′5 lady.

As a 6′2″ man who recently ended a long-term relationship with a 5′1″ woman I felt compelled to chime in.. I think the ‘i’m with a tender little girl’ fetishism is often prevalent in these choices from the male perspective. Incidentally I’ve come to believe that a proper fitting spooning in the morning is what matters above all else. I hope to finally experience it soon with my new love interest, a lofty 5′11″ with a mere inch less inseam.

Quit bitching and complaining that tall woman can’t get any tall men as a tall woman. I’m a short woman and I love six foot a few inches taller men. There are plenty of tall men for you. At least I know plenty of tall men through communicating. I’ll do my own survey with the tall men. Is height the biggest deal of dating a guy? Don’t be jealous and all the six foot tall men and over are all in my bed together.

@FlowingGeisha, looks like there is a peak hour in your bed

At 5′ 2″ and 100 pounds I’m one of the “evil” shorties. When I was in high school I always dated guys that were at least 6′ 0″, while my 5′ 8″ and 5′ 10″ average-sized best friends had to stoop to kiss their 5′ 5″ boyfriends. I think tall guys are attracted to short girls like me, though, for two reasons: if the guy is sweet and nice, the masculine head-of-the-family-wage-earner-protection syndrome kicks in, and a small, delicate woman is seen as being in need of protection more than an average-sized one. Also, you can literally physically protect her. I once read a book where a tiny, petite main character had to run away from a dangerous situation and did so by hiding behind a huge, 6′ 5″ guy while his hotel room was searched for her. On the other hand, if the guy is power-hungry and domineering he probably goes after small girls because he feels like he can control them easier than a taller one.

From my point of view, Tall women are the product of a machist world and are also a product of been given the power to lead by most people. Plus on top of this most of them have a contradiction.

So they are given the power to lead from a very young age, because people literally look up to them. So people tend to follow them and expect them to know more throughout their lives but at the same time they are also a product of a machist world. Because they are thought form a very young age that a girl has to be smaller than a guy or tastily said inferior than him, so that she can look more feminine. So tall girls do as society tells them (in most cases) and they look for a taller guy than them. The thing is that when they do find a guy taller. They also do as they always have done in their lives and try to take the lead of the relationship. After all tall girl are formatted that way by society also.

The contradiction within them comes here from point of view. Sense we live in a machist society (generally speaking) guys are given the power to lead even more rightly so than tall girls. And if this is true for most guys in general, it is even truer for tall guys. So you could say that tall guys are the most machist of all guys, because they are used to having things done there way; and that is true even between the guys.
So having said that; you cannot have TWO” deciders” in a relationship, like that Bushisms nicely expresses. Tall girl are too similar to tall guys to get along, they both want to be the” decider” at the same time. That is the contradiction. That is the reason why tall girl generally end up marring shorter guys. Because of this, shorter guys tend to be easier going than tall guys and more willing to give tall girl the lead if they wanted to have it. So it is not so much that tall girls did not find a taller guy because they were too tall. This is not that true, because there are always more tall guys than tall girls. It is more likely that they did find a taller guy (in most cases) but most of the taller guys were not compatible with them. Because of the way they were formatted by society and that general contradiction within them. That’s probably why; most tall guys say that tall girls are not bubbly, like short girls. Probably tall girls do not take it kindly when someone tries to boss them around; this in comparison with short girls.

After saying that, I am willing to bet that if the girls would have been the taller of both sexes we would be living in a feministic-society. So in that sense is not cool to call a tall guys machist because the whole society is the machist one and probably that could be determine by the fact that guys are the taller sex and not by the guys choice only. . Plus in some cases the girls are is the most machist of both sexes.

You know; Because of this is that I find so ridicules the typical stereotype of the guy been always the taller one in a relationship. It like saying that a girl can never be more than guy–Because supposedly this looks ridicules– What looks ridicules upon further analysis is a girl wanting to be less than the guy she is with because she does not know any better.

Shallow, Shallow, Shallow!

My dad is 6′3″ and my mom is 4′11″. My sister is 5′10″. I’m 5′0″. Guys approach me more than my sister. My sister had a bf who was 6′2″, they had been dating for a few months. That was before she introduced him to me. Now I’m dating him and I love him, he’s the hottest thing alive. I’m sorry for my sister, but it’s something I can’t help.

Because most chicks are materialistically driven, raised in their families to go for bigger, taller and for more. It all falls down on persons character and their values. The same happened to me, just because i am 6′0 tall, brown eyes, brown hair i am being ignored, excluded and pushed away. But a similar dude with blue eyes, blond hair and 6′0 or taller would be accepted. Totally racist and unfair!

I’m a tall man and I think tall women are smoking hot if the proportions are right. However in my day to day life I usually dominate the skyline and very rarely see anyone close to my height, male or female.

You cracked me up! “Quite why people feel this way, and also feel bold enough to tell me, confounds me”

I am constantly confounded by why ppl feel bold enough to say de most ridiculous things when most parents seem to condition us to be sensitive and courteous. Who is raising all the rude un-smooth people? While I must say I havent had the pleasure of being called intimidating, I’ve dealt with my share of stupid comments like: Is dat your real hair? Are you wearing a wig? Do you eat? I would never be bold enough to point out someone’s weight if they were thicker than normal!
As for your question, I would stick to de genetics idea. Havent humans gotten taller over time? that can only happen if people mix right? But I laughed hard at “Maybe it’s simply that smaller women are easier to throw around the bedroom”
I think if de guy is famous he doesnt want to be upstaged by a pretty tall girl. She might take de spotlight from him.

CeeCee, I don’t subscribe to blogs. ha ha. I was looking for photos of tall men with thier wives and this showed up. I hope this answers your question. lol Plus, why so shallow? geeze it’s only a body, enjoy it while it’s yours because someday it will be worm food.

ROFLOL. Some of You guys are just soooo hilarious. As a very short man who (obviously) has been short my entire life it has never failed to amaze and astound me just how very insecure many tall people are. Your insecurity is evident in your obsession with height. Height has never been an issue with me. I was always one of the best athletes in my class and school, I was alway THE best artist in my class …always. I was always one of the more popular people AND I always had very attractive women who were attracted to me.

It hasn’t changed now that I’m an adult. As a single man I was always FAR more successful at attracting and getting than most tall guys …and they knew it. Now I am ecstatically married to a drop dead beautiful woman who is 20 years younger than I and about 2 inches shorter. My last girlfriend before her was the niece of a very famous actor/comedian and MANY of his rich/some famous/ and tall friends tried to get her but had no chance since she was so madly in love with me.

I think that many tall people (both male and female) just like many short people (both male and female) just don’t have what it takes and they blame their height for it when there is so much more going on.

Oh… and by the way. The tallest woman I ever dated was about 6′01″ and the tallest actual girlfriend I ever had was 5′10″ (I didn’t care if she wore heels or not and sometimes she did). Me? I am just 5′3″ …and lovin life. (You people crack me up.) LOL.